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Do you sometimes feel that your kids might eat you out of house and home? It can feel like that at times, especially during the teen years. They grab a handful of cookies here, a bag of chips there, and finish last night’s leftovers in a flash. They’re growing like weeds, of course, so you figure all that eating is OK. And most of the time, it is.
But sometimes, heavy snacking isn’t what it seems to be. A kid who eats unusually large amounts of food — and feels guilty or secretive about it — could be struggling with a common eating disorder called binge eating disorder.
Lots of people find comfort in food. After all, it’s often at the heart of our happiest celebrations. Birthdays can mean cake with friends; Thanksgiving often means turkey and stuffing with family. Most people will sometimes eat much more than they normally do (or even want to) on special occasions.
But people with binge eating disorder have a different relationship with food — they feel like they’ve lost all control over how much they’re eating, like they can’t stop. They also binge more frequently — at least twice a week for several months.
For people with binge eating disorder, at first food may provide feelings of calm or comfort or stop them from feeling upset. But if bingeing continues, it can cause anxiety, guilt and distress. A binge usually involves eating unusually large amounts of food quickly. While bingeing, a person feels completely out of control. These behaviors can become a habit, which is often alternated with dieting.
Binge eating disorder is more common in people who are overweight or obese, but it affects people of healthy weight as well. However, there’s little information on how many kids and teens have it because the condition has only recently been recognized. Some people may be too embarrassed to seek help for it.
Also, because most binge eating is done alone, even if their kids may be gaining weight, parents might not be aware that it’s due to bingeing.
While other eating disorders (like anorexia and bulimia) are much more common in females, about a third of those with binge eating disorder are male. Adults in treatment (including 2% of adult Americans — roughly 1 million to 2 million people) often say their problems started in childhood or adolescence.
Kids and teens who sometimes eat a lot don’t necessarily have binge eating disorder. Kids can have huge appetites, especially during growth spurts, when they need more nutrients to fuel their growing bodies. So it can be difficult to determine whether a child has binge eating disorder. But several signs distinguish someone who binge eats from someone with a “healthy appetite.”
Parents and other family members may first suspect a problem when they notice large amounts of food missing from the pantry or the refrigerator, though it’s hard to imagine one child could have eaten so much.
Other signs include:
People who binge might experience feelings that are common to many eating disorders, such as depression, anxiety, guilt, or shame. They may avoid school, work, or socializing with friends because they’re ashamed of their binge eating problem or changes in their body shape and weight.
The causes of binge eating disorder aren’t clear, although the National Institutes of Health (NIH) report that up to half of all people who have it also have a history of depression. It’s not known, though, if binge eating brings on depression or if people with depression are prone to the disorder.
Many people who binge eat say that episodes can be triggered by feelings of stress, anger, sadness, boredom, or anxiety. However, even if someone feels better temporarily while eating, it’s usually associated with feelings of distress. Most commonly, after a binge a person will feel anxious, guilty, and upset about losing control.
Binge eating disorder is slightly different from other eating disorders.
People with bulimia nervosa (sometimes called binge-purge syndrome) binge on food and then purge (vomiting or using laxatives) to avoid gaining weight. They may also fast (stop eating for a while) or compulsively exercise after an eating binge. Like people who suffer from binge eating disorder, those with bulimia nervosa repeatedly eat very large amounts of food and feel guilty or ashamed about it. Unlike bulimia, however, those with binge eating disorder do not or are unable to purge and are, therefore, frequently overweight.
Anorexia nervosa also involves feelings of guilt about eating. Whereas people with binge eating disorder consistently overeat, people with anorexia starve themselves, causing potentially life-threatening damage to their bodies. They also may compulsively exercise to achieve weight loss, a condition known as anorexia athletica.
If the doctor thinks your child might have an eating disorder, he or she will take a thorough medical history. The doctor will also discuss the family history, patterns of eating in the family, and emotional issues. In addition, a complete physical will be done and lab tests may be ordered. Blood tests can look for medical issues (like high cholesterol or thyroid problems) that may be related to having an unhealthy weight.
Doctors and mental health professionals use the criteria in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual IV (DSM-IV) when they identify binge eating disorder. These include:
As with any eating disorder, it’s also important for a child to have psychological therapy for support and to help change unhealthy behaviors.
Different types of therapy can help treat binge eating disorder. For example, family therapy and cognitive-behavioral therapy teach people techniques to monitor and change their eating habits and the way they respond to stress. Family therapy includes the whole family in the process of helping the individual.
Cognitive-behavioral therapy combines the approach of helping people change self-defeating thoughts along with changing their behavior. Counseling also helps patients look at relationships they have with others and helps them work on areas that cause them anxiety. In some cases, doctors may prescribe medication to be used with therapy.
But there’s no quick fix for any eating disorder. Treatment can take several months or longer while the person learns how to have a healthier approach to food. Although weight-control programs are helpful for some people affected by binge eating disorder, kids and teens should not begin a diet or weight-control program without the advice and supervision of a doctor.
For some parents and family members, the long road to recovery can be frustrating and expensive. Get support for yourself through parents groups or by reading about the disorder so you can help your child and your family get through this.
Many children and teens with binge eating disorder become overweight after months of overeating. Their most common health risks are the same ones that accompany obesity, including diabetes, high blood pressure, high cholesterol levels, gallbladder disease, heart disease, some kinds of cancer, and depression and anxiety.
If you suspect your child has a problem with binge eating, call your doctor for advice and referrals to qualified mental health professionals who have experience treating eating disorders in kids.
Reassure your child that you’re there to help or just to listen. Having an eating disorder can be difficult to admit, and your child may not be ready to acknowledge having a problem. You also can encourage healthier eating habits by modeling your own positive relationship with food and exercise and by not using food as a reward.
With the help of your family, friends, and supportive professionals, your child can start eating healthy amounts of food and learn to manage stress in healthier ways.
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