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Health Information For Kids
Sometimes going to sleep can seem boring. There’s so much more you want to do. But if you’ve ever had too little sleep, you know that you don’t feel very well when you’re not rested.
Some kids have trouble falling to sleep, sometimes called insomnia. Let’s talk about what to do if that happens to you.
For kids, feeling scared or worried at bedtime is one of the main reasons for having trouble falling asleep. A kid might be afraid of the dark or might not like being alone. If a kid has a good imagination, he or she might hear noises at night and fear the worst — when it’s just the family cat walking down the hall.
As you get older, these fears usually fade. Until they do, make sure your room makes you feel relaxed and peaceful. Look around your room from your bed. Are there things you can see from bed that make you feel good? If not, add some. Display some family photos or other pictures that make you happy. You might even create a mobile to hang over your bed.
Have you been having any nightmares lately? Sometimes it’s hard to fall asleep when you’re afraid of having a scary dream that feels way too real. If the fear of nightmares is keeping you awake, try talking to your mom or dad. Sometimes talking about the nightmares (and even drawing a picture of them) can help you stop having them.
By the way, kids have many more bad dreams when they watch scary or violent TV shows or movies or read scary books or stories before bedtime. Instead of doing those kinds of things, try thinking good thoughts before bed. Imagine a favorite place or activity or think of all the people who care about you. Reading a peaceful book before bed (your parent can read to you or you can read to yourself) or playing soothing music can help you have sweet dreams.
Insomnia also can happen when you’re worried about things. It’s easy to feel stressed when you have tests at school, after-school activities, team sports, and chores around the house.
If you’re starting to feel overwhelmed — like it’s all just too much — speak up. Your mom or dad can help you put some balance in your schedule. It may mean cutting out some activities so you have more free time.
A major change in your life or daily routine can easily cause sleep problems. Changes like divorce, death, illness, or moving to a new town can affect your ability to sleep through the night. During a difficult time, it helps if you feel safe. Try bringing a comforting object to bed with you, like a blanket a relative made for you or a favorite stuffed animal.
It might take a while to feel better, so talk with your mom or dad about what’s bothering you. Even if the problem can’t be solved, just talking it out can help you sleep easier.
If you feel too hot, too cold, hungry, or crowded, you won’t get to sleep like you should. Prevent this by creating sleep-friendly bedtime space:
Most of the time, talking with your parent is all you need to do to handle a sleep problem. Your mom or dad can help you improve your bedtime routine and help you be patient while you develop new sleep habits.
But if a kid has really tough sleep problems, he or she might need extra help. That could mean talking to a counselor or psychologist about stress or sadness the kid is feeling.
If the kid’s not really worried about anything, he or she could have a sleep problem. In this case, the answer might be to see a doctor who’s a specialist in sleep. Some hospitals even have sleep labs, where patients come in and go to sleep so doctors can monitor their sleep and see what might be wrong.
Because so many people get insomnia, a lot of research has been done on how to beat it. Lucky for you, right? Not all of these tips work for everyone, but one or two might help you:
Nightmares may be upsetting, but they are not “real” and can’t harm you. Almost everyone gets them once in awhile – adults and kids. Read our article on nightmares to find out more.
Have you ever walked in your sleep? If so, you’re not alone. Check out this article to find out more.
If you yawn in class, you’ll probably notice a few other people will start yawning, too. Why is that?
Are you a kid who snores? Find out why some people are such noisy sleepers in this article for kids.
Sleep is vital for giving your body a rest and allowing it to prepare for the next day. This article about sleep will teach you why your brain needs to spend time in bed getting zzzz’s!
When you get a good night’s sleep, it’s like giving your body a tiny vacation. Find out the scoop on sleep in this article for kids.
Note: All information is for educational purposes only. For specific medical advice, diagnoses, and treatment, consult your doctor.
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